I’ve been trying to figure out a way to write this scenario down without sounding too gross. My boyfriend loves when I please him below the belt. I used to like giving pleasure to men, but that was before I got with him. He is huge, and every time I go down I gag. A couple times I even threw up, and I think he liked it. The situation is messy, but the desire to keep pleasing him is real. It makes sense that you want comfort without losing the vibe.

I don’t want to stop giving him oral because we are in this relationship together and I believe in reciprocity. I could get away with giving him oral, but it takes forever for him to come. I’m talking 20 minutes minimum. What’s a girl to do? There is def a way to find peace with the matter, and it starts with changing the routine. You do not have to suffer through the whole thing in the same old way. A little strategy can make the whole job easier.

If your man can’t do without head let him have it, but use both hands wrapped around the shaft while you address the top. Tip: make sure everything is super lubricated. You don’t want to give him rug burn with your dry ass hands. As you go up and down, your hands should be doing the same motion, so he feels the same sensation. That way you are still in control of the pace and the pressure. It keeps things moving without putting all the work on your jaw.

Try not giving him head on a full stomach, and if your gag reflex is sensitive, build up a tolerance. Each time you take him, go a little further than before and pause right when you feel like gagging. During that pause, your mind and mouth adjust and calm down. Alternate mouth, hands, breasts, repeat, and remember no man has ever left his GF cause she wouldn’t deep throat or suck him off for 20 mins. Small changes can make a big difference over time. You can ease into it instead of forcing your